Get excited for a post from GIRL NINJA!!!!!!….
It’s the most, wonderful time, of the year (except for the summertime). I LOVE Christmas. The smells, the music, the decorations, the lights, the joy, the greatest gift of all time…I just love it all. I get it from my mom. She is obsessed- I’m not kidding. Our whole house was transformed top to bottom with everything Christmas during the month of December when I was growing up. Along with that, we have traditions upon traditions that are celebrated. One of them….spoiler alert…is that we would open gifts on Christmas Eve.
Almost all of them.
This really gets to Ninja. He doesn’t get it, doesn’t understand it, and doesn’t care for it. But, he loves me, and he follows our tradition for the sake of tradition.
Now that we’re all grown up, things have started to change. Within the last 3 years, 3 out of the 4 of us girls (yes, I grew up with 3 sisters, no brothers) have gotten married, and my oldest sister recently had a baby.
The more the merrier, right?
WELL…that is until we make our Christmas shopping list. Now before some of you commenters get all Scrugey on me, we love to give gifts in our family, especially these types of gifts. There is more joy in the giving, than in the receiving for our family. This is especially true now that we are all older, and a little less selfish.
a big family, a big GROWING family, means a big BIG GROWING list of gifts to purchase each year. It can become quite overwhelming. All in all, there are 10 people in my immediate family. Then, we have Ninja’s side of the family (another four), close friends, and volunteer gifts for those that work in my classroom.
I WANT TO GIVE EVERYONE GIFTS!!!!
Unfortunately, that’s not really practical. I’ve talked with my sisters and instead of getting each of them gifts this year, we are drawing names and will only be assigned one person. It’s new, it’s different, it’s not tradition…but if it goes well enough, it might be!
Instead of buying 10 gifts, I’ll buy one gift, and Ninja will buy one gift. We have a larger budget for our gift recipient, which will really broaden my gift giving horizons. So fun! Not to mention, I think Ninja will be happier as this new plan saves everyone money and there is no more insane hunt for that perfect gift for each of our family members.
How do you (would you) handle Christmas in a big family? Are we the only family that still gives gifts pretty religiously?How do you tame your Xmas budget?